Laura Prepon for Bella Magazine.

BAE. So very bae. 

Laura Prepon for Bella Magazine.

BAE. So very bae. 

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Yessssssssss Frank yessssssssss bae.

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1) A boy telling you you’re pretty won’t make you see the beauty in the fullness of your cheeks, in redness of your lips at 2 in the morning when tequila is making the bar bathroom spin. He can’t take away the ugliness that you see in yourself, you have to do that.

2) You have to be ready to hear someone say they love you. You have to be ready, and you have to be willing, and you have to listen. Because sometimes, they won’t say those three words, they’ll put a blanket over you while you’re watching a movie, they’ll kiss your cheek when they think you’re asleep, they’ll smile when they see you first thing in the morning. But you, you have to be willing to see it, feel it, let it in. Letting someone love you takes practice.

3) Don’t make compromises you can’t live with. Compromise is a different version of what you want, not a whole other Universe.

4) Learn to say no. No - to a movie you don’t want to watch; no - to sex you don’t want to have, no- to a relationship that’s driving you mad. Say no - to things that hurt you, to people that extinguish your fire, to jobs you hate and places that are desolate. There are bad things that we can’t control, bad things that happen and we are sucked into and have to feel with every fibre of our being, but the rest - learn to distance yourself, learn to say no.

5) Don’t expect people to walk through fire for you - not your parents, not your friends, not the person you’re in love with. Love doesn’t mean sacrifice, love shouldn’t mean sacrifice. Don’t expect someone to give away pieces of them, so they could fit you better. And don’t feel hurt when they refuse to - it’s self-preservation. Instead - learn from them. Do it as well.

6) Don’t tether yourself to people. Learn to make connections, to love, with both your feet steady on the ground. Learn to let people pass through your life; like a summer breeze, not a storm that’s just been unleashed.

7) Learn the difference between growth and growing up before it’s too late. Rooftops and water fights and ice cream for breakfast can be a part of your life at 10, 25, or 35. But by the time you’re 35 you need to learn to say enough, to be able to walk away, you need to be able to love yourself. Love yourself the way you loved yourself at 10, before the world had a chance to fill your head with ugliness.


m.v., The list of things I learned before turning 22, pt.1. (via findingwordsforthoughts)

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when you see someone hot walking your direction 


but realize they’re ugly when you see them up close 


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"She said, ‘I’m so afraid.’ And I said, ‘why?,’ and she said, ‘Because I’m so profoundly happy. Happiness like this is frightening.’ I asked her why and she said, ‘They only let you be this happy if they’re preparing to take something from you."

— Khaled Hosseini, The Kite Runner (via psych-facts)


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Le accurate.

Still relevant.

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Dear Future Us

I have a letter
that I’m holding onto
until the first time that I
really fuck up.

And when I do,
I’ll let you read it and I’ll be
silent until you’re ready to talk
to me again.

It’s gonna tell you
how much I love you
and how long I’ve loved you,
and why I love you,
and when the time comes,
I hope it will be enough.

I hope my love for you will be enough.


You: What are we doing?

Me: I think this is called falling in love.

The act of choosing love

is the bravest decision that one can make.

Whether it is choosing to love another, 

or choosing to love yourself,

there is no greater act of fearlessness 

than to accept that you are opening yourself

up to both the best and the worst parts of love,

the most vulnerable and the most secure,

the easiest to love and the most unlovable characteristics.

All the imperfections and flaws that come with

our humanity are tempered by the power of love.